It can be confusing to pick the right partner for a satisfying relationship. At times, conscious criteria and unconscious emotions seem to disagree. As we have found, however, both are important. Only by paying attention to what you feel AND what you think, can you truly find a satisfying, long-term partner. Therefore, it is essential to find that mutual emotional "spark" of attraction, but not get lost in it - at least until you decide you are both consciously compatible too!